I dread return to the office after having sex with IT guy 30 years my junior

DEAR DEIDRE: DURING the first lockdown I really struggled to work from home on my company laptop because I am not computer literate.

One IT guy really helped me out so when we went back into work last summer, I found him to thank him.


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We arranged a drink after work for one Friday. I am 56 and he is 27 and after a ­couple of drinks we flirted.

We ended up having sex back at my place which was very emotional for me as I hadn’t had sex for six years.

The next day I texted and called him once but he didn’t respond, so I spent the next few months avoiding him. It’s been a relief working from home again but now I’m dreading the return to the office.

DEIDRE SAYS: You can take control of this situa­tion by letting him know you weren’t expecting anything long-term and suggest it isn’t mentioned again. He is probably worrying you want to take it further when he doesn’t. 

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