My wife asked me if I found her attractive and I said 'I don't know'

DEAR DEIDRE: I NEVER see my wife naked now after she asked if I still found her attractive and I said: “I don’t know.”

Don’t ask me what I was thinking. I’m really so proud of her.


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While everyone else piled on the pounds during lockdown, she lost nearly eight stone.

She’s never been confident but after her weight loss, I again saw the woman I married 20 years ago.

We are both 43 now.

I knew she would have extra skin after the fat had gone but it doesn’t bother me.

She makes me warm inside and when I look at her, she always makes me smile.

I can’t believe I made such a thoughtless comment.

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She thinks I’m disgusted by her, but I’m not.

I need your help in getting my wife’s confidence back.

DEIDRE SAYS: Perhaps she will read this letter and you can tell her you wrote it.

Your absent-minded remark was not true and you clearly love her.

Build her confidence with little compliments and with your touch. Leaving love notes around or sending nice texts will show her you mean it.

My support pack called Raising Self-Esteem may help her too.

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